Most of us know the Pareto principle, also known as the 80-20 rule, where 80% of the effects come from 20% of the causes. This applies to many areas of the daily life. Economics, effort in software development, and pain caused by problems. Let's take a look especially on the last point. I'll not examine the volume of problems and pain. But I'll review the source of those problems. I'm now on earth since 42 years - by the way the answer to life, the univeerse, and everything *smile* - not enough to be called a wise man, but old enough for many observations.
One of those observations is about two groups of people. The first one attracts attention through their life without - obvious - problems. They reach their goals, how near or far those may be, and resolve obstacles as if they don't exist. Thus, their general tenor is optimistic. But there's also the second, more pessimistic, group. The people belonging to it often have problems and communicate them to their environment. But do they really have more problems, do they really have a migraine where others have a headache, an influenza where others have a small cold, or allways one of thosse expensive car repairs? If you take a closer look you'll see that it isn't so. Both groups have almost similar problems, but the second one tells more about it. And they allways act very clumsy and doubtful.
So where's the link to the Pareto principle? It's not direct. But I think that 80% of their troubles are caused by themselves and only 20% are from outside. The problem ratio is linear, but 20% of those 80% self-caused troubles produce 80% of the pain. Aaaargh, arithmetics while talking about problems. *smile* What I meant to say is that the concentration on the right self-made troubles, about 15%, could evade a large amount, about 65%, of the effects. And reducing two-thirds of the pain should be a worthwhile goal for everyone.